first night

First Night Fear

Called Honeymoon impotence and fear among the people known as the state's first night, some newly married couples olamamasıdır first successful attempts of sexual interference. The first sexual experience, sexual life, the next most important determinant factor. The first couple of failures are reflected in all sexual life.

Need to examine this issue in two directions:

1) to result from men:

Man, especially in the first nuptial night is to be attempted sexual intercourse, and can not be successful in such a situation will cause concern. Not cure the problem until that day no man, this nervousness fear of failure (performance anxiety) lives, and this enthusiasm can not provide the cure. When men have to prove himself that night under the intense stress of the failures occur.

This is a continuation of the stress can become sexual. Exactly at this point, or the environment and the negative impact of her husband, met expectations, causing the loss of a sense of self-confidence and entering a vicious cycle, can not provide the months-long cure.

What is performance anxiety?

Performance anxiety, especially people who are not proficient in sexual knowledge and experience in a time even after erectile difficulties may occur, a condition often experienced as a transient and mild. The person at a time or, even if it can not sustain erection again, and his wife will not be satisfied with such obsessions become engaged. You think about sex at the start, not the main focus of take pleasure or satisfaction to reach, 'achieving success' becomes.

Treatment Methods What is it?

This is called psychological origin düşünülebilinir. If you reach it until the day the man's erection problem already, this situation may be called an organic etkendendir and detailed diagnostic methods should be contacted. Impotanslarında first tried oral medications and psychological honeymoon or to become successful. The relationship has taken place after the first of these drugs to help a relationship after the two drugs do not need anymore. Female self-confidence to win and everything will be back to normal. Sometimes, not enough medicines, injections erection of the penis is provided. However, there has always been an organic way of curing problems after examination of the alternatives seem appropriate treatment can be applied.

2) welding of Women:

He does not have a relationship with a young girl at all until the day, will be the first in the relationship for fear of bleeding, and a bent acıyacağı gerdeğe enters. This is due to anxiety and fear in the muscular and the relationship not to let him start. This condition is called vaginismus in women as in men, the same logic and just go up to a vicious cycle. The men confronted her husband in such a situation after a period of time tend to stay away from the psychological effect begins to cure the problem, or sex, and both men and women leads to a process that should be treated.

What is Vaginismus:

Involuntary contraction of the front portion of the vagina will not allow sexual intercourse. Sexual therapy clinics 12-17% of the applicants put the diagnosis of vaginismus. Situational anxiety, involuntary muscle contraction, excitability on sexual problems, vaginal problems, and sexual reluctance kayganlıkla, lack of sexual knowledge may be cause of vaginismus. Sometimes post-infection, surgery, physical reasons, such as can be seen in cases of developing secondary vaginismus. Vaginismus, psychologists or psychiatrists, gynecologists and sometimes that may require treatment.

Often, a situation seen in pairs, sometimes to admit that no doctor başvurmamasıdır negativity. The first initiative after the failure of both couples is usually temporary and resolve the problem thinks. Subsequent attempts at women gerçekleşmeyince relationship distress, tension, lack of kadınlığında idea that begins to emerge. Men are not desired by the wife, without getting feelings of rejection begins. For this reason, the experts suggested, wait until at least 1 week, and receive professional assistance can not resolve the problem by themselves.

Reduce Sexual Taboos Request

exual aversion, reduction or absence of sexual desire and fantasies is a condition characterized by. Sexual aversion disorder along with severe cases may also occur. Sexual aversion disorder, sexual contact and masturbasyondan duymaktır disgust. There is a continuous state of sexual abstinence. Anadolu Health Centre Sexual Dysfunction Clinic Psychiatrist Erbek'in According to Evolution, spouse's sexual anxiety and fear creates a convergence of people with impaired disgust, penis ellemez, dokundurtmak district does not want sex. Is more common in women than men. Usually the psychological origin. Although widely seen as sexual aversion in society, very few people seek help because of this complaint falls. However sexuality as the indispensable basic ihtiyaçlardandır eating and insomnia.

Increase Sex and pleasure, with the front

Direct sexual intercourse without foreplay orgasm becomes a problem for the last men's wives live in uyarılmadıkları enough. Emotional intimacy and love not having to endure that for a women's sexuality becomes an action. Routine, brief, emotional proximity reduces the pleasure from the relationship away from the style of sexual intercourse and frequency of sexual activity decreases with time. Husband and wife own their care, hygiene and çekiliği sexual partner does not reduce sexual desire. Clean the obsessive, fastidious and prim female or male sexual arousal problems, reluctance, and is more common.


Negative Conditions Affecting Sexuality

Sexual preference, although it is a different relationship with married women or men may be reluctant. Rarely enters into the relationship with his wife, the fantasy continues by establishing a sexual relationship. Sexuality ayıplandığı, kötülendiği, growing families, women often brought solid bans sexual intercourse may be reluctant to baskıladıkları desire, arousal may experience problems. Traumatic sexual experiences, psychiatric disease, alcoholism, substance abuse, sexual fears, chronic stress, fatigue adversely affects sexual function.
Most of the time deterioration of the agreement between the spouses, lived marriage relationship problems, infidelity, anger can not be expressed in the reluctance of his wife sexually attractive and can cause bulmamaya. But the people doing masturbation, sexual fantasy is building and proximity to other people can hear there are marital problems to be solved not in the middle of sexual problem. Marital conflict in the area of sexual partners cezalandırırken attracts couples without actually taking pleasure at the same time leave them. Decreased sexual desire sexual intercourse less than once every two weeks although this problem is the frequency of sexual intercourse for both generating the same reluctance to talk about sex is not true. Good sexual communication with ease couples can share their problems and seek solutions in this field to enter into relations with the problem of sexual aversion may not be.
Pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, sexual aversion may develop periodically for reasons such as drug use. He neniyle loss of sexual desire is normal hormonal changes of the period.
A number of physiological changes occur in women after menopause. And thins the vaginal mucosa during sexual intercourse would not be sufficient wetting. This changes depending on the time of sexual intercourse can be painful, and this may result in reluctance. Vaginal gels and the use of hormone therapy may help to solve the problem.

Sexual Aversion Therapy Can Be

It is important as a person's sexual reluctance görebilmesidir a problem. First of all, the reason is determined and the reason for reluctance is the treatment of sexually selected. Drug therapy is controversial. Research continues on this subject. Due to the lack of hormones may be useful in hormone replacement therapy in the treatment of sexual reluctance.
Touching, sexual massage, erotic games and conversations, sharing fantasies, testing different positions, sexual pleasure from sex is good communication and consequently increases the sexual desire, sexual life, coloration.