First Night

First Night Fear

Called Honeymoon impotence and fear among the people known as the state's first night, some newly married couples olamamasıdır first successful attempts of sexual interference. The first sexual experience, sexual life, the next most important determinant factor. The first couple of failures are reflected in all sexual life.

Need to examine this issue in two directions:

1) to result from men:

Man, especially in the first nuptial night is to be attempted sexual intercourse, and can not be successful in such a situation will cause concern. Not cure the problem until that day no man, this nervousness fear of failure (performance anxiety) lives, and this enthusiasm can not provide the cure. When men have to prove himself that night under the intense stress of the failures occur.

This is a continuation of the stress can become sexual. Exactly at this point, or the environment and the negative impact of her husband, met expectations, causing the loss of a sense of self-confidence and entering a vicious cycle, can not provide the months-long cure.

What is performance anxiety?

Performance anxiety, especially people who are not proficient in sexual knowledge and experience in a time even after erectile difficulties may occur, a condition often experienced as a transient and mild. The person at a time or, even if it can not sustain erection again, and his wife will not be satisfied with such obsessions become engaged. You think about sex at the start, not the main focus of take pleasure or satisfaction to reach, 'achieving success' becomes.

Treatment Methods What is it?

This is called psychological origin düşünülebilinir. If you reach it until the day the man's erection problem already, this situation may be called an organic etkendendir and detailed diagnostic methods should be contacted. Impotanslarında first tried oral medications and psychological honeymoon or to become successful. The relationship has taken place after the first of these drugs to help a relationship after the two drugs do not need anymore. Female self-confidence to win and everything will be back to normal. Sometimes, not enough medicines, injections erection of the penis is provided. However, there has always been an organic way of curing problems after examination of the alternatives seem appropriate treatment can be applied.

2) welding of Women:

He does not have a relationship with a young girl at all until the day, will be the first in the relationship for fear of bleeding, and a bent acıyacağı gerdeğe enters. This is due to anxiety and fear in the muscular and the relationship not to let him start. This condition is called vaginismus in women as in men, the same logic and just go up to a vicious cycle. The men confronted her husband in such a situation after a period of time tend to stay away from the psychological effect begins to cure the problem, or sex, and both men and women leads to a process that should be treated.

What is Vaginismus:

Involuntary contraction of the front portion of the vagina will not allow sexual intercourse. Sexual therapy clinics 12-17% of the applicants put the diagnosis of vaginismus. Situational anxiety, involuntary muscle contraction, excitability on sexual problems, vaginal problems, and sexual reluctance kayganlıkla, lack of sexual knowledge may be cause of vaginismus. Sometimes post-infection, surgery, physical reasons, such as can be seen in cases of developing secondary vaginismus. Vaginismus, psychologists or psychiatrists, gynecologists and sometimes that may require treatment.

Often, a situation seen in pairs, sometimes to admit that no doctor başvurmamasıdır negativity. The first initiative after the failure of both couples is usually temporary and resolve the problem thinks. Subsequent attempts at women gerçekleşmeyince relationship distress, tension, lack of kadınlığında idea that begins to emerge. Men are not desired by the wife, without getting feelings of rejection begins. For this reason, the experts suggested, wait until at least 1 week, and receive professional assistance can not resolve the problem by themselves.